Thursday, 7 September 2017

A Family Wedding

Family Wedding

It's not very often that we get to get our glad rags on, so when a big family occasion calls for it we all like to make an effort. A year ago, my younger brother got married and the entire family came together to celebrate. Big family events such as this have always been a song and dance, and I have some incredible memories growing up of parties and holidays that are as funny today as they were then. 

These family events included the entire family, great grandparents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, sisters, brothers, cousins, you name it. On one family holiday we decided that it would be such a fantastic idea to use our plastic spades to dig a deep hole on the beach front. So between us cousins that's exactly what we did. The hole was deep enough for one cousin to stand into it up to his waist, and somewhere along the way we decided what a brilliant idea it would be to fill the hole back in... With him in it. 

As we carried on throwing sand back in and patting it down firmly as we went, we noticed that the tide was starting to edge closer to where we were all positioned. Long story short? My cousin was stuck fast and his Mother had to borrow a full size shovel to dig him out before the tide came in. To this day everyone but my Aunt can see the funny side of this, and somehow that just makes the tale that little bit more hilarious whenever it comes up in conversation. 

As it happens this tale did come up at the wedding, and again it brought a smile and a giggle as we cast our minds back through time to be back on that beach front as the waves started crashing in (if only they had camera phones back then....). 

Family Wedding


The reality is that everyone has grown older over the years and decades that have followed that time on the beach front, children have become adults and have children of their own, the adults have grown older, and we are now at a time in our lives where the matriarchs of our family are reaching their later life. My Granddad is now in a care home living with Alzheimer's, and it is these memories that put a smile on his face when he isn't really sure of where he is or what he is doing. He doesn't remember the wedding day, but he does remember that day on the beach, the people who were there and the memories that have been cemented from that cheeky prank.

On the big day, the men and boys were kitted out in suits, my other half had spent a great amount of time trying to decide which suit he liked best on Suits Men, and the girls and ladies all sparkled in beautiful dresses. The memory might not be recalled by my Granddad, but we know that he was there and we have the reassurance that although his short term memories of more recent occurrences are not what they used to be, his long term memories are all there for him and for us.

If there is one thing that I have learned it's that you can never take too many photographs, and I am going to make it my mission to dig out all of our old family shots, as I think they will be sure to bring a smile to the whole family's faces.




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