Friday, 7 July 2017

Choosing a new bed for your child

Choosing a new bed for your child

It's been almost a year since Leo and I moved into our new home, which means that Leo has had the new bed that he begged and pleaded for, for less than 12 months. The beautiful thing about children is that one minute they absolutely love the idea and then they change their minds, and guess what? Leo has now decided that he no longer wants a high rise bed.

What I love about Leo having a high rise bed is that it comes with so much built in storage, under Leo's he has a desk and a wardrobe that is home to clothes and some toys. I don't really know what we would do with all of the things that currently live in those places if we did decided to get him the double bed that he desires.

I can see the argument from both sides of the coin here, because as much as I love the storage aspects of the high rise bed, there are also factors that I don't like.

I don't like how difficult changing the bedding is, because to do so you need to balance on the ladders and hope you don't take a tumble. You might also bump your head because you are rather close to the ceiling. 

I don't like climbing up and down the ladders.

I don't like how much of a mission it was to sort a fan for Leo during all of this hot weather.

Choosing a new bed for your child

Choosing a new bed for your child

Yes I think it is fair to say that I have been considering Leo's plight and embellishing it with my own issues with his high rise bed, I have found some discount codes for Bensons For Beds over on Voucher Slug, and it is really tempting... but at the same time I can't help feeling a little sad that this bed is still so new, and in absolutely pristine condition.

I could try to sell it, or I could keep it and put it into storage in case one day maybe we have another child who might like to use it? I could then just purchase a new bed for Leo? I really don't know what I should do here, because I do think that in the long run it would be better to upgrade Leo's bed to a double now (did I mention that he's also anchoring after a memory foam mattress!?) because sooner or later it is going to be something that he wants/needs in the future. 

Choosing a new bed for your child

I think I am definitely leaning towards to side of selling the bed and giving his room a switch over, we might need to have yet another toy cull, but I think that it would look really good. I would like to try and find a bed that I could wrap some fairy lights around, I think that always looks really smart.

 Then he would need a bedside table where his night light and fan could sit (that would solve the fan issue). Not to mention how much easier it would be to get into bed to read him his bedtime story....

I think I already know what I should do...

I guess we are getting Leo another new bed...

Friday, 23 June 2017

Shopping online in 2017



We live in the age of the internet, and in 2017 whether we care to admit it or not, we are reliant upon it for well... everything. We bank with it, we use it for work and play, we use it for shopping and we use it for finding bargain deals that you quite simply couldn't find on the high street. We even use it to sell our own products, whether we are trying to sell a car (just like I am right now), or we might even have our own online shops. 

Of course with all of the online shopping that we do these days (or if your in the blogging game), you will no doubt be getting very familiar with your local delivery teams. There are so many different ways to send and receive a parcel now, which ultimately makes the whole online experience that much more effiencent and smoother. 

We have Standard Shipping methods that ususally come through Royal Mail services, to DX Delivery where you can keep track of your delivery or the item that you have sent out.

I have to admit that if I am selling things on eBay now, I like to make sure that I have a tracking number so I know exactly when an item has been signed for. This is because I was stung last year. H sending out a rather expensive item to an eBay reciepent, only to have to refund them the price of the item because they were claiming it had not been received. Personally I found this very hard to believe, and although I had proof of sending the item, I didn't opt for the tracking option, which ultimately stung me and left me with a very bitter taste in my mouth.

I cannot prove that this person was in reciept of the item I sent, but I do have my suspicions, and for the sake of my eBay feedback I refunded the amount and learned my lesson (all be it the hard way).

Then there is the complete flip of the coin, with a very different experience, this time I am the buyer, and I am looking at a risqué top with Newlook online. I had checked all the stores and couldn't find this top to try on, so I sent the guys at Newlook a Tweet, asking if they knew whether it was in any of the stores at all, or if it was just an online special. They got back to me very quickly, and their customer service was incredible (and I have to say the very best social media service that I have ever come across). They told me that they would provide me with a free next day delivery code to use at the checkout, so that I could pay just the price of the top, and if I didn't like it I could pop it back to my local store for a full refund. 

I was due to fly out on holiday the very next day, and the top arrived in time for me to take it away with me. Unfortunately the top (which was a chain top, see what I mean by risqué!?) snapped within a short time of the first wear, and upon my return I contacted them again. They immediately rectified the problem by issuing me a full refund, sending me another free next day delivery code and even gave me a small discount off the price of the top.

I have never received such amazing customer service before, and they have certainly set the bench mark for my online shopping experience.

I am currently in the market for a Nintendo Switch (Leo's 6th birthday is coming up on June 27th!), and unfortunately the intitial stock has run out and new orders won't be forfilled until a month after Leo's birthday. I don't think that this will be an issue though, I have already explained that there will be a slight delay on his main present, but after all it's a Nintendo Switch, and this will only extend the  excitement of turning 6 for him!

The internet is making the world a much smaller place and usually if you can't find it on the high street, the World Wide Web will most certainly have it, and with the way deliveries go now... you could even have it in your hands by the very next day. 






Wednesday, 21 June 2017

What to consider when designing a home office

designing a home office

If you work from home like I do, or use a desktop computer in any capacity, then a home office is pretty essential. I would be lost without my little office space at home these days, and although it is just in the living room area (Because this is the only place that I have the room), it is still a very practical space that allows me to get everything I need, done. 

When it comes to designing your home office space, Office Principles have some great ideas and you can't go wrong if you consider these top 5 tips:

1. Location - You are going to spend a lot of time at your desk so you don't want it to be stuffed away into a small cupboard, no. You are not Harry Potter. You do need to think about the space you have available though, there is no point investing in a huge antique desk if you have no where to put it right? For me the living room is the only realistic place as I didn't want my working area to be in my bedroom. Granted I had to compromise on a decent size dining table, but in the grand scheme of things, an office space benefits me so much more.

2. Buy the comfy desk chair - This is somewhere you are going to be spending a lot of time, so you want to be comfortable right? I am still trying to find the perfect desk chair and currently I am going against my own advice. As I write this I am perched on my vanity table stool, and it is not doing my back any favours I can tell you. Ideally I want one with a high back that I can slouch into and feel comfortable while I am writing. Ideally it would have a heat function so that I can be extra cosy in the colder months.

3. Install good lighting - Sometimes I work quite late, or sometimes the weather means that the light isn't very good. I treated myself to a desk lamp that boasts natural light, so it doesn't look as yellow as a typical bulb. This works brilliantly for me because I am often recording vlogs in my office space for my YouTube channel. Even if you aren't into vlogging, having good lighting will help you get the job done.

4. Keep your Tech up to date - When I decided to sort my office space out, the first thing I did was upgrade my computer. For many years I was a laptop kind of girl, but this was more because I didn't have the space for a desk top. I now have a rather fancy desk top sitting pride of place on my desk, and as I was going for a white theme, all of my desk top essentials are in white (including the printer and the desk light!).

5. Storage - This sis something that I still need to address, I wish I could say that I was really organised when it comes to my work space, but the honest truth is that I am not. I want to invest in some shelving so that I can file my important paper work away (and be able to relocate it when needed), and ultimately keep my work place tidy. 

As you will gather from this post, there are still aspects that I need to address in my own personal office space, and the next thing on my list is the seating, then I will be in a much better position to address the storage space.

How have you got your home office?

















Thursday, 15 June 2017

6 Tips For Picking A White Dress


When we think of formal white dresses, the first image that usually comes to mind is a wedding dress. If it’s a white, long dress, we usually picture bridal gowns. So, how do you wear a formal white dress without looking bridal? How do you defy fashion’s expectations and just go for it? Here are our top tips to embracing beautiful white gowns without looking like you are about to walk down the aisle.

1.    Stay Away from Bridal Makeup

If you have your heart set on elegant white homecoming dresses, you need to be careful with our makeup. We don’t mean avoiding getting it all over your dress (that’s pretty obvious), but rather, when you choose your makeup, you should avoid that clean and classic bridal look. Big lashes, glowing skin, and pale pink lips are the stereotypical bridal standard, so go in a totally different direction. White is the number one neutral colour, so you can really spend time making your makeup look work!

2.    Complement with Textures and Colours Instead of Sparkle

Chances are, you have seen Say Yes to the Dress at least a dozen times, so you know how many brides set out to be a sparkling princess on their wedding day. Instead of going with that flow, pick a texture and colour that will accentuate your look instead of making you sparkle. In fact, aim for a natural colour palette and even complement your white dress with a tan belt and tan heels.

3.    Make Your Dress Trendy

The trendier your look, the less you will look like a quintessential bride. Pick a formal white dress that has a trendy pattern, texture, or shape, to keep it from looking dull and to help you look modern. If you choose a classic white frock, pick trendy accessories so that you look more red-carpet ready and less like it’s time to head to the chapel.

4.    Concentrate on the Dress’s Structure and Shape

The ultimate thing that separates a formal white dress from a wedding dress is the shape. Try to avoid those classic wedding dress giveaways such as sweetheart necklines, voluminous skirts, and a sparkly, ruching, or belted waist. You’ll want to avoid a train, too. Instead, aim for non-traditional traits such as a two-set piece, cut outs, or a thigh split.

5.    It’s Okay to be an Anti-Bride

Another way to avoid looking like the cliched bride is to be the anti-bride. It sounds a bit ominous, but what we mean is when you create your look with your white dress, pair it with non-traditional bridal pieces such as messy hair, studs, a leather accessory, or strong cat eyes.

6.    Choose Strong Details

What about a long-sleeve, ruffled number? While long sleeves may be “in” for wedding dresses thanks to Pippa and Kate Middleton, a sharp-angled corset layer complete with a bodice can turn a snow-white gown into something very un-wedding like indeed.

Use these six tips to help you choose the perfect white dress for your formal event and avoid looking like a classic bride!


Monday, 12 June 2017

Give the Expecting Mother a Special Gift for Her Twins

Baby Gift


Is your friend, sister, or neighbour expecting twins? If yes, then it is time to start thinking of a gift. There are so many choices and you do not want to buy two of anything that is going to be what someone else’s has gotten the mom to be. From baby hampers to pink or blue matching jumpers, there are the perfect gifts out there for the expecting mother.

Baby Clothes

Babies go through clothes fast. A great gift idea for a mother with twins is a nice set of clothes. You do not have to worry about the ink and blue issue, just pick a beautiful neutral colour like yellow, white, grey, or lavender. Babies are cute and a small jumper or a little set of shorts and shirt are perfect to help a mother through the first year.

Baby Soaps

Little babies can easily make a mess, so what better way to help the expecting mother than give her beautiful mild soap. Make sure the soap is baby approved. There is nothing better than a baby, but a great smelling baby. There are many natural baby soaps that smell wonderful and look nice too.

Plush Stuffed Animals

Everyone likes soft things, and babies are no exception. There are several beautiful lines of stuffed animals that are made for infants. You always want to make sure the stuffed animals are made with high-quality materials so they are safe if the babies put their mouths on it.

Socks and Booties

The only thing cuter than a pair of twins are the little booties and socks they make for infants. It is always important for infant’s little feet and heads are covered. You always want babies to have the right temperature so they do not get sick. The babies should also be protected from sun exposure. There are many small cute all cotton socks and booties to choose from.

Hampers

Hampers are always the perfect choice for an expecting mother as there are so many options from food hampers to neat collections of knick knacks for the babies. Choose from the high quality baby hampers in Sydney or in your local area. High quality hampers tell the expecting mother how much you care. The hampers also provide the expecting mother help with everything she needs to keep her babies healthy and happy.

Crib Toys

There is nothing more soothing than a happy baby and a sleeping baby. You can help the expecting mother of twins keep her babies and happy with neat toys that can attach to their crib or stroller. Babies absorb everything around them. Help the expecting mother keep her little twins happy and entertained with fun colourful toys for their crib or stroller.



Having twins is a special gift. Make your expecting mother friend of twins feel great by getting her one of these great gifts. Make sure you buy high quality as the gift will last longer and show you really care. You can find several excellent online stores that provide an array of great gifts for the expecting mother. Buy your special gifts today.

Wednesday, 7 June 2017

Hair Loss, depression and anxiety

Hair Loss, depression and anxiety

I don't think people realise how much hair loss can affect a person's mental health. because to the likes of you and I who have a full head of hair, it's no big deal right? 

WRONG.

Losing your hair is like losing a little bit of yourself with each and every strand you find stuck in the sink. With each hair that comes away, another little bit of your confidence chips away with it. It's the longing to pull your hair line forward, to be able to style it the way that you like and not being able to do anything about it, looking at your 5 year old's full head of hair and wishing you could try it on for size.

Losing your hair is depressing. It knocks your self esteem and given the chance it can feel like you have had your identity robbed from beneath you. Male pattern baldness (MPB), the main cause of hair loss, and it affects an estimated quarter of men by the age of 30 and two-thirds by the age of 60.

I am talking from the perspective of a partner looking in from the outside. My other half has been struggling and trying to fight hair loss for the last 5 years or so, and I have witnessed first hand just how soul destroying this experience has been for him. 

Although he paint's on a brave face for the rest of the world, and laughs at the relentless jokes about his receding hair line, I know that every time someone has chuckle or makes a remark it cuts him up inside, but still he paints a smile and laughs it off, but deep down it makes him think about looking into a hair transplant again.

Last year we secretly visited a place about hair transplants, I went along for moral support and to find out whether my other half would be a candidate, we drove for a few hours to make this appointment but we went in secret. Friends and family thought that the journey was really a business meeting, he didn't want to draw attention to the fact that we were really going along to discuss what options he could have in rejuvenating his hair line. 

It is becoming more socially acceptable now though thanks to recent successful hair transplants on celebrities like Wayne Rooney, James Nesbitt and X Factor judge Louis Walsh. The meeting did not go the way that he had first hoped, and at this time he was not a candidate for a hair transplant, but who knows what the next few years may bring...

Hair loss is almost a journey of self acceptance, changing with the times and learning to embrace what you can't change. It's like having control completely taken away from you and I guess to put it in terms to an outsider it would be asking them to walk around with a big red nose on their hooters for the the rest of their lives. 

We live in a time where appearance is apparently everything, we all think too much about how we look. We want to feel happy in the skin (and hair) that we are in. Over the past couple of years I have looked into many hair therapies and the vast line of products that can supposedly work their wonders on male pattern hair loss, but so far we haven't really struck gold.  

We have tried lotions that you rub into the scalp, we have tried the Theradome Laser Helmet and we have tried tablets and shampoos. No stone has been left un-turned in the quest to slow down the hair loss and hopefully help it rejuvenate.

When it comes to hair loss it is worth remembering that the person that this is happening to, might be silently devastated inside. They might laugh at your witty joke (that they are probably hearing for the 1000th time), but inside this might just be soul destroying, and you have to ask yourself whether making that joke in the first place is worth that. 

Hair loss is not funny, hair loss can be a fight that chips away a little piece of you everyday.

Next time you make a joke, think about what is going on behind the smile on their face and the glassy look in their eyes.






Baby, Just Cry It Out




Early motherhood is hard. There’s so much to learn, and so many new responsibilities on your shoulders. It’s a time when you want to be as alert as possible. How else are you supposed to rock motherhood? Of course, any new mother will tell you that they don’t experience alertness often. We’ve all heard the term ‘baby brain,' right? Those first months especially can leave us feeling completely out of it. There are, of course, the extreme hormones related to that period. But, the worst culprit is often  lack of sleep. When you’re already feeling strange, not getting enough sleep is the last thing you need.

For the most part, a new mother can expect to be up during the night. Babies need feeding often, and there’s no getting around it. But, sometimes, our kids can disturb our sleep for other reasons. They may go through periods where they cry the moment you put them down. It’s tough and can be enough to break the delicate balance you’re managing to maintain. Instead of letting it break you, it’s important you find a way to a solution. Otherwise, both you and baby will be miserable. You should, of course, check the problem isn’t colic. This can cause babies to cry regularly, and a quick online search will help you diagnose the problem. If that doesn’t seem to be on the cards, your child may be testing your limits. If they get attached, it can be tough for them to go without you. As sweet as that is, it’s time to put a stop to the nonsense. These steps should find you sleeping sound once more.

BE STRICT ABOUT BEDTIME

The first step you need to master is getting strict about bedtime. If you usually put your little one down at a different time each night, it can disorient both of you. Having a bedtime routine creates an expectation in a baby that it’s time to sleep. So, they should be sleepy when you come to put them down. It may take a while to find a routine that works, but it’s crucial you stick with this.

There’s also an ongoing argument among parents about whether a baby should sleep in your room. Whatever your standpoint, it's tougher to be strict at bedtime if they’re in with you. Plus, if your little one is crying for hours on end, having them in your room is far from ideal. It’s worth taking a look at cots and cot beds, and setting them up in their own room. This step needn’t cause you any worry. You can get baby monitors and keep an eye on whatever baby’s up to. You never know, having their own sleeping space may be all it takes to stop the crying.

KEEP A TIGHT FEEDING SCHEDULE
Some parents plan out their feeding, while others wait until the baby wakes up. They’re pretty good at letting us know when they’re hungry, right? But, if crying is becoming a problem, it may be time you got strict with your schedule. If your baby is hungry, you don’t want them going without. So, you run to them every time they cry and try them with a bottle. Don’t do it. Instead, write down feeding times for throughout the night and set the alarm for each. That way, you needn’t worry that you’re neglecting a starving child. You’ll be able to rest easy that the crying has another cause.



LET THEM CRY
For many parents, the idea of letting their baby cry is a horrendous one. How could they do such a thing? But, if night time crying is ruining sleep for both of you, it’s the kindest thing you can do. You’ve sorted your feeding schedule, so you know they aren’t hungry. Eventually, they will cry themselves to sleep. It’s harsh, but it works. A baby will often cry this way to gain attention or affection. This is especially the case if they’re used to falling asleep on you. Who wouldn’t want cuddles with mummy over sleeping alone? If you run in and give them the cuddles they’re demanding each time, you’re affirming the behaviour. As hard as it is, set yourself the goal of letting them cry for one night. You may not believe it, but you can guarantee it’ll go a long way towards stopping the problem. If you find it too difficult to leave them, it might be worth entrusting the task to someone you know won’t cave in!